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The Uncommon James Sale ends tomorrow!

I have a huge love affair with Uncommon James. After watching episodes of “Laguna Beach” and then “The Hills” I feel like I have somewhat grown with these characters on tv. Yes I know I haven’t but it feel like it. I love seeing what they are doing, what direction their lives have gone in and what they are up to.
So when the girls made the decision to go to Nashville for October birthday month, yeah that’s a thing. I knew I had to check out the Uncommon James store for myself.
I hadn’t watched the “Very Cavallari” show yet so I didn’t know what I was walking into but I was in love at first sight. The clean decor and mural on the wall was perfect. I was greeted by the staff as I walked in and was showed all the latest pieces they had out. Mirrors were around so you could easily put on the jewelry and see how each piece looked on you.
I am drawn to gold colored jewelry so I ended up spending all my money on just that. I purchased the “all eyes on me” and the “don’t blink” to wear as a pair. But I didn’t stop there. I also grabbed the “starburst” to wear with the “ready to mingle” or if I wanted a more sparkly look the “purdy”. For earrings I picked up the “strawberry fields” in white.
I feel for my first trip and purchase I had covered all of my bases. After getting my new items I had one of the staff ladies take my picture against the mural. The staff was so sweet and took multiple angles lol, something I am sure they were used to doing.

I have recently picked up the “helix” necklace, the “girl boss” earrings and the “rhapsody” earrings. There are several other pieces I plan on grabbing such as the “Nashville” for starters. Right now they are having a sale till Sunday for 20% off, code “sweetsavings” so time to add to cart.
Her jewelry is worth every penny, beautiful and classic. The customer service is very helpful and quick to respond when you have a question. I highly recommend all of her pieces.

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How to have balance with kids, job and a life

Something so important to me is balance. Last year it took me a while to figure out what exactly that looked like for me. This blogging journey started back in March which added to an already busy lifestyle of being a mom of two kids. I have 65% of the time with me with, their activities, my full time job as HR for my parents company, and my side hussle of owning apartments. All of the fun that goes along with that and trying to fit in selfcare. Be that being working out, time to myself, cleaning my home and of course my great boyfriend of almost two years now Kyle, doing date night and spending time together.

Mornings
Since starting the #last90days challenge it teaches you to get up an hour earlier which has helped a ton. At first I was using this time to do my Instagram posting and engagement for the morning, but at 5 am you don’t see alot of activity. So I had to change it up and I really didn’t want to workout that early. When I workout I like to read a magazine, scroll social media, or watch tv. I don’t do a rough workout.
After doing the 80 days and doing Orange Theory and all the things for so long I needed a break. Now I am walking on the treadmill for at least a half hour. I do this after the kids get on the bus and I have the place all to myself. During that early hour I now do things for me, like laundry or cleaning or just checking my email. I plan on doing more blogging during this time and that is one of my goals this year.
During the day
After workout is done I get ready and head to work. Sometimes to the apartments to see what needs marked off on the never ending list of to dos. At the office I do HR and all the fun things with it. I manage the payroll and also do the books for myself for my rentals when I get all of my other items accomplished for the day. Lunch lately has been taken at the desk with leftovers or soup. All while trying to get caught up on all my personal bills and emails and if there is time blogging.
Afternoon
Thankfully the mom thing I have down. I have kind of always been a single parent even when I was married so use to doing everything all the time. I did the pickup, drop off, doctors appointments and sports all on my own. So when I did get divorced it was a major shock to the system of having time alone. That is a whole other post for another day. Using a system of when they get home, met them from the bus, doing homework and snacks.
Then activities after that in which everyone goes is part of our quiet time in the car waiting that hour for them to be done. Piper will bring a book or something to do while Will is at practice. Will and I will do flash cards or books or just have some down time while we wait on Piper. This only happens twice a week so far so I am kind of lucky we aren’t running around all the time. Dinner is during or after homework and lately its been Hello Fresh because of the fresh ingredients and so easy to make.
Bedtime
After that its bedtimes, Piper heads to bed and Will and I read books, lately its been Dogman. These are his favorite lately and I love that he is willing to sit and listen to me read them.

Kyle is very understanding of all of my balancing and is there to support me in this wonderful journey. When I don’t have the kids we stay at his place and that can be a nice break. He also joins me in getting up early but he actually does go and workout lol.
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The best photos of the week on Instagram 1.18.19
So ready for Friday!! Can’t wait to relax. I feel like this week has been dragging me down and I need a day to relax and refresh. I have been so hard at work trying to get everything done and it seems like all I do is add to my plate instead of take away. Although I did get some photos that were the best overall so far this week. Deb from Sunsets and Stilettos was talking about the “white space” and how after the holidays there is more of it and to try to not fill it up. I think I may need to practice that a bit this weekend. Enjoying the white space may be what I need this weekend.
So, on to the clothes. Its been a good week of sales because everyone is trying to clear out what they have and make ready for all the spring items. So major sales at Loft, J. Crew Factory, and Old Navy to mention a few. You can always check my retailers page for the latest sales and also I just did a huge blog post on Loft.
And to the best photos of the week:
This was the most popular of the week, and for good reason, this top is so cute and chic and on major sale. It comes in a bunch of spring colors as well but I was totally thinking of Valentines day.

Another Valentines Day idea, love this heart sweater and how neutral it is. Getting the love vibe but without the color.

I absolutely love these leggings from Recovery Wear. Paired with a lavender sweatshirt that has pockets, oh yeah.

This speckled sweater is one of my favorites and goes with everything. Really soft and cozy fitting large so go down one size. My favorite jeans as well usually always on sale at 25.00.

This tunic was your favorite from the Loft sale. It goes great with jeans and spanx! Go up one size for a looser fit.





